Don t care about you

There are 12 references cited in this article, which can be found at the bottom of the page. People who have hurt you by betraying your trust or being overly critical can and often should be ignored. People who have actually hurt you physically or emotionally do not deserve to be let off so easy. Yes, you should absolutely cut off contact with someone who has physically or emotionally abused you. But do not hesitate to contact the proper authorities if you feel unsafe or believe this is a pattern of behavior likely to be repeated. Seek understanding without justifying their hurtfulness.

The question begs, how is that possible? How could someone who loves us not care about us? A relationship where a person loves another person who needs to be in control, is selfish, self-absorbed, demanding, insecure, unhappy, lacks empathy and a variety of other variables. Wake-Up Call — You are in a relationship with a person who finds your feelings worry, stress, happiness, sadness, etc. The Truth: If you have to beg to be heard — Recognize this person does not care about you or your feelings. However, either in between that argument or later, you double back and explain how much you love this person despite the disagreement.