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How to Avoid Being Clingy With Friends
Fair enough. However, the downside is that for some people, making friends just isn't all that easy. But then they take a "friend inventory. They start to think that other people have more close friends than they do, and if "they feel like the gap is too big, it's almost as if they give up and feel it isn't even worth trying," said the lead author of a recent study , Ashley Whillans, an assistant professor at Harvard Business School. The study was published last month in the journal Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin. They worry that they don't have enough friends, and if they worry enough--they actually make fewer friends and suffer as a result. Sure, it makes sense that good relationships would help people to be happier, but there's some good data to back it up.
Nobody wants to be the friend who is being clingy. However, at some point or another, most all of us have been there. When we are feeling like we might be losing a relationship or if we are not sure that the other person cares about it, the tendency for most people is to try to bring the relationship back together by holding onto it as tightly as we can. Unfortunately, in many cases, this can feel smothering for the other person. If you are worried that you are being clingy, take steps to distance yourself a bit from the friendship, determine whether or not you are actually being clingy, and try to build up a bit of confidence in yourself so you won't feel so dependent upon your friendship.
When you spend 90% of your friendship dealing with their issues and trying to calm them down or stop worrying, you don't have a real friendship. It's okay to.
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It's Metafilter's 20th anniversary! To celebrate, scan some cats or help fund Mefi! How can I stop fretting about standard communications with friends? I wonder if there are any good ways to talk myself out of this. Snowflakes inside. Needless to say, my friends all have different communication styles: a couple of them like to talk every day, while some don't, and I have friends I sometimes don't speak to for quite some time as in months. However, I can't quite seem to translate my understanding into everyday life.