Who Really Cares: The Surprising Truth About Compasionate Conservatism Who Gives, Who Doesnt, and Why It Matters by Arthur C. Brooks
10 Signs He Deeply Cares About You
How You Know Someone Cares
Someone who cares will ask you how your day is. Not out of some sort of obligation, but because they genuinely want to know. Someone who cares will tell you things. Some people share more than others, but someone who cares will tell you things that matter to them, no matter how small that thing is. Someone who cares will listen.
Maybe this guy seems too good to be true. No one could blame you for wanting some certainty before you invest your time, energy, and heart into another person. People can be fickle, dishonest, and confusing. Unfortunately, love is a maddeningly mysterious emotion and state of being. Stay aware of the dynamics of your relationship. Look for the signs that he cares about you and sees a future with you.
2. They look at you ... a lot
A lot of people would brag about how many friends they have., Not every guy in the world is percent honest all of the time when it comes to how he feels.
Fact: No one really knows how to tell someone you love them for the first time. Navigating the vague, frightening, thrilling waters of a new relationship is beautiful, raw, exciting and terrifying. As enamored as you are by your newfound love, you're also hungry for a commitment, for the verbal affirmation that the heart you're increasingly laying on the line is going to be safe. But there's no faster way to stomp out the fire of new love than by making grandiose promises too soon, and no faster way to drive yourself into an anxious fit than by remaining unsure of how someone really feels about you. You want to make your feelings known, but you don't want to be too hasty with declarations that might imply promises you're not ready to make. Quite the pickle, no? Love, it turns out, is not a word you say—it's a thing you do.
How do you know if someone genuinely cares for you? To some of us, this might seem like a silly thing to wonder about. You might think so, but sometimes when you are in the relationship, it is difficult to detect the good qualities and feelings. If you are wondering if your partner or loved one genuinely cares about you, here are just a few ways to know for sure. When the person is able to look past your mental instabilities — most people have them! But only someone who really cares about you can live with them.
So then how could you find out if someone really cares about you? So while everybody else says that red lipstick makes you look like Taylor Swift, your friend is the one who tells you that it actually makes your teeth look yellow. Let's demonstrate this with an example. Now there are two ways of pointing this out to you. See the difference? Because they care.